BE A MAN ABOUT IT

WOMEN PREFER A WELL PUT-TOGETHER GUY BECAUSE ITS MORE LIKELY THAT HE CAN PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE

BELIEVE IT OR NOT, PEOPLE REACT DIFFERENTLY TOWARDS YOU BASED ON WHAT YOU WEAR. CERTAIN OUTFITS GET YOU SPECIAL TREATMENT AND OTHERS...WELL silent treatment.

IT'S THE SOCIAL DYNAMICS OF CLOTHING.

JUDGING SOMEONE SOLELY BASED ON THEIR ATTIRE MAY SEEM A BIT UNFAIR AND SUPERFICIAL; BECAUSE HONESTLY THEY ARE THE SAME PERSON WHETHER THEY ARE WEARING "GUCCI" OR "GO CHEAP". HOWEVER, THERE'S NO AVOIDING IT, LOOKS MATTER AND THERE'S NO REASON WHY WE CAN'T USE IT TO THE BEST OF OUR ADVANTAGE.

CONFIDENCE

THINK ABOUT IT. I'M SURE THERE ARE TIMES YOU WORE YOUR "BEST SUIT/KIT" TO AN EVENT AND YOUR CONFIDENCE WAS SOARING LIKE A BOLT OF LIGHTENING. AS YOU ENTERED THE ROOM, YOU WERE STRUCK WITH A FEW QUICK YET UNMISTAKABLE GLANCES FROM WOMEN. I KNOW I AM GUILTY OF GIVING A WELL DRESSED MAN QUICK HEAD TO TOE PEEK. LOL :) WHAT? I CANT HELP BUT FEAST MY EYES ON A WELL PUT-TOGETHER GUY! SORRY.

SWITCH IT UP A BIT!

DON'T JUST RELY ON YOUR PLAIN BRAND NAME T-SHIRT AND JEANS TO PULL YOU THROUGH ALL THE TIME. SWITCH IT UP A BI! YOU CAN ADD A BLAZER OR WAIST COAT (DEPENDING OF THE OCCASION) ALONG WITH SOME ACCESSORIES. AN ATTRACTIVE WATCH, SOME BEADED HAND BRACELETS, A ROSARY CHAIN OR A LEATHER HAND-BAND AND A SIGNATURE RING THAT'S REALLY TRENDY YET MASCULINE. YOU CAN PLAY UP THIS LOOK WITH A COMBAT BOOTS, JUST LIKE MR. KONSHENS DID HERE IN THIS PIC:) TRUST ME GIRLS/WOMEN LOVE A MAN WHO IS CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO TRY NEW THINGS.

WORK IT UP!

SOME PEOPLE HAVE THE SILLY BELIEF THAT "DRESSING UP" FOR WORK IS INAPPROPRIATE. I SAY THAT'S NONSENSE! A DAY IS MADE UP OF 24 HOURS BUT WE BASICALLY HAVE 12 HOURS TO PLAY WITH DURING THE WEEK. EIGHT OF WHICH  IS TAKEN UP BY WORK, SO WHAT I'M SAYING IS, IF YOUR GOING TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME AT YOUR JOB, YOU MIGHT AS WELL LOOK GOOD DOING IT! HERE IS WHERE WE SOMETIMES END UP MEETING OUR FUTURE SPOUSE. IF NOT AT WORK,

IT'S DURING OUR LUNCH BREAKS, AT A FOOD OUTLET OR MAYBE A MEETING. DRESS TO IMPRESS I SAY! A SLIM FIT SHIRT WITH NO PLEATS, SLIM FITTING TROUSERS, BELTS WITH TRENDY BUCKLES, SLIM TIES ABOUT 3 INCHES OR LESS, AN ATTRACTIVE SIGNATURE WATCH, CLEAN LEATHER LOAFERS, CONFIDENCE AND A BRIGHT SMILE!LOOK GOOD!FEEL GOOD! WORK GOOD!

GROW UP ALREADY WILL YA!?

NOT BECAUSE YOU LOOKED CUTE WHEN YOU WERE  16 WEARING YOUR HAT TURNED BACKWARDS WITH BAGGY JEANS, GRAFFITI TEES AND SNEAKS MEANS YOU WILL KEEP THAT LOOK FOREVER! SERIOUSLY? WHAT KIND OF WOMAN DO YOU INTEND TO PICK UP WITH THAT LOOK? GROW UP! USHER DID. LOL GROW A BEARD, FIND YOURSELF AND EXPRESS YOU WITH MATURITY. DON'T BE AFRAID TO FIND YOUR  OWN SENSE OF STYLE. NOT BECAUSE "THE FELLAS ON THE BLOCK" NOT DOING IT, THAT MEANS IT'S QUEER, BE YOUR OWN MAN AND EMBRACE YOUR PERSONAL STYLE!  

                                                                                                                       

JODI